If You’re Worried You Invest in a Relationship Too Quickly, Watch This… (Matthew Hussey)

There is a comment that I read an awful lot in our community from women who say, “Matt, my problem is</i> <i>that I invest too much too soon.” “My emotions get the better of me.” “I get carried away, and because I really like someone” “I give a lot in the beginning.” It’s a tricky situation, even philosophically. You have the people who say, “If you’re feeling it, just go with it.” “If you really like someone, and it feels great,” “and you’re in love, and… whatever,” “just go for it.” And then there’s this other group of people over here that say, “No, no, no… If you over-invest.” “If you give too much,” “then you’re gonna ruin it.” “You need to hold a piece of yourself back.” “You need to slow it down.” You’ve got people telling you to do a whole bunch of things that don’t feel very natural for you to do in those stages when you just wanna get carried away.

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