How to go on a first date via video chat, according to Serena F*cking Kerrigan

SERENA KERRIGAN: Before a date, hype yourself up. I literally look in the mirror. I’m like, damn, you’re so [BLEEP] hot, Serena. Hoo, hoo!

You’re looking good in those tie dye sweat pants. Yep. Hi, my name’s Serena [BLEEP] Kerrigan, and I’m here with “In The Know” to talk about how to go on a first date via video chat. I am a content creator in New York City, and I specialize in helping women feel like bad [BLEEP].. One of the questions I’m asked most is, how do you go from chatting on an app to texting, to then video chat?

If you’re talking to someone on a dating app, and you’re vibing with them, don’t feel weird about jumping into a FaceTime. And don’t get so bogged down in the logistics and the specifics. Be like, hey, want to FaceTime in an hour?

I’m about to make myself a drink. Would love to chat with you. Why not? Have a little wine.

Have a little date. Have a little martini. Talk to them for a little bit. Come on, that’s amazing. It’s just honestly the most stripped down version of a date, which is the most important version.

So what to wear during a FaceTime date. You need to wear what makes you feel confident. I mean, don’t look like a slob, but I mean, I’ve been seeing people look real cute in their loungewear.

I went on a date on Friday. I threw on a red lip. I threw on a dress, and I had sweat pants on the bottom. I told the guy, and were, like, cracking up. They want to see the best version of you, and you will only be the best version of you if you feel good about yourself.

Before a date, hype yourself up. Go in a mirror and be like, I got this. I’m a great person. He’s gonna love to get to know me.

Let’s [BLEEP] go! That’s how I hype myself up before date. Yeah. I literally look in the mirror. I’m like, damn, you’re so [BLEEP] hot, Serena.

Hoo, hoo! You’re looking good in those tie dye sweat pants. Yep.

When it comes to building intimacy on FaceTime dates, I think it really just goes back to the conversation, unless you have FaceTime sex, which is very [BLEEP] hot. Every dating app date I’ve been on, like, we immediately dive into, okay where are you living? Who are you living with? Are you all alone? Are you anxious?

Like, what have you taken up? Are you puzzling? Are you tie dying? Are you Zooming?

SERENA KERRIGAN: Before a date, hype yourself up. I literally look in the mirror. I’m like, damn, you’re so [BLEEP] hot, Serena. Hoo, hoo!

You’re looking good in those tie dye sweat pants. Yep. Hi, my name’s Serena [BLEEP] Kerrigan, and I’m here with “In The Know” to talk about how to go on a first date via video chat. I am a content creator in New York City, and I specialize in helping women feel like bad [BLEEP].. One of the questions I’m asked most is, how do you go from chatting on an app to texting, to then video chat?

If you’re talking to someone on a dating app, and you’re vibing with them, don’t feel weird about jumping into a FaceTime. And don’t get so bogged down in the logistics and the specifics. Be like, hey, want to FaceTime in an hour?

I’m about to make myself a drink. Would love to chat with you. Why not? Have a little wine.

Have a little date. Have a little martini. Talk to them for a little bit. Come on, that’s amazing. It’s just honestly the most stripped down version of a date, which is the most important version.

So what to wear during a FaceTime date. You need to wear what makes you feel confident. I mean, don’t look like a slob, but I mean, I’ve been seeing people look real cute in their loungewear.

I went on a date on Friday. I threw on a red lip. I threw on a dress, and I had sweat pants on the bottom. I told the guy, and were, like, cracking up. They want to see the best version of you, and you will only be the best version of you if you feel good about yourself.

Before a date, hype yourself up. Go in a mirror and be like, I got this. I’m a great person. He’s gonna love to get to know me.

Let’s [BLEEP] go! That’s how I hype myself up before date. Yeah. I literally look in the mirror. I’m like, damn, you’re so [BLEEP] hot, Serena.

Hoo, hoo! You’re looking good in those tie dye sweat pants. Yep.

When it comes to building intimacy on FaceTime dates, I think it really just goes back to the conversation, unless you have FaceTime sex, which is very [BLEEP] hot. Every dating app date I’ve been on, like, we immediately dive into, okay where are you living? Who are you living with? Are you all alone? Are you anxious?

Like, what have you taken up? Are you puzzling? Are you tie dying? Are you Zooming?

Are you baking banana bread? Because I baked banana bread last night. Quite frankly, if you can’t get through that, then you won’t end up together, because you should be able to talk about something like this. When it comes to how long a date should last, I feel like you just need to vibe it out.

I would cap it maybe at an hour. And ladies, especially because men love the chase, and you can correct me if I’m wrong, but they do, cap it at two drinks, or two waters, two diet Cokes, and end it in an hour. And be like got to go. Got to run.

And they’ll want more. Trust me. In terms of how to know when the date went well, there obviously are exceptions to this, but it’s worked for me. When a guy likes you, you will know, and if he doesn’t, you will be confused. I think that heterosexual men tend to be black and white in that, if they want to see you, or if they want to talk to you, they’re gonna initiate those plans.

They’re just very, they’re very simple creatures. When you have a really good date with someone and you don’t know what to do, how to take the next step, you know, feel it out. Be like, hey, want to do this again some time? Great.

Sure. See if you’re talking, whatever. Don’t be afraid to just go for it. Life is too short. The second I just liberated myself from finding the person, I was like, whoa, now I can be myself.

And I thought a lot about, you know, do I need to tone it down? Do I need to change myself on a first date, or a second date, and eventually they’ll know who I am? [BLEEP] that. I am who I am from the start to the finish. Don’t forget to live your best [BLEEP] life, because life is short, so get after it.

All right, guys, I hope this was helpful. I’m Serena [BLEEP] Kerrigan. Let’s [BLEEP] go. You guys can find me on Instagram, on TikTok, on Twitter, on Facebook. It’s all Serena Kerrigan.

Please come. You got this, baby. Enjoy your dates.

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