Guys Explain How To Win On A Date

– So, we are here because I have gathered, four very honest guys, who are going to give us a little bit of an insight, into what they’re thinking, when they go on dates. Before meeting with them, I’m gathering questions from some of my friends. How does that sound to you? – It sounds fantastic. – Yeah, okay! – What are some of your winning moves? What do you think’s really gonna get me? – Let me tell you the two things that girls swoon for, rescue dogs and non-profits. – You can compliment a girl, about something that she literally just said. – Not being too agressive, too soon.

Like, certain guys, put their hands on your hip, and it’s like this, hey, but we still at the back. – You have to relax, if there’s that initial spark, just play it out. – Eye contact. It’s simple. – If you can give a girl a hard time, I think if you can listen, and then, I think honestly if you ask questions. – That is the number one thing, – Just listen and ask questions. Guys stop being nervous, ask the ladies questions. – What do you guys look for in a date? – Oh yeah – Core values. As long as there’s some overlap, in that Venn diagram. – The first thing I’m looking for in a date with a girl, is confidence. – Show me that you’re passionate about something. – Definitely a girl that has a sense of humor and can mess with you a little bit. – It’s humor, I think that’s like the biggest thing. If we can’t laugh, because now we have nothing to relate to, there’s no good times.

– So, we are here because I have gathered, four very honest guys, who are going to give us a little bit of an insight, into what they’re thinking, when they go on dates. Before meeting with them, I’m gathering questions from some of my friends. How does that sound to you? – It sounds fantastic. – Yeah, okay! – What are some of your winning moves? What do you think’s really gonna get me? – Let me tell you the two things that girls swoon for, rescue dogs and non-profits. – You can compliment a girl, about something that she literally just said. – Not being too agressive, too soon.

Like, certain guys, put their hands on your hip, and it’s like this, hey, but we still at the back. – You have to relax, if there’s that initial spark, just play it out. – Eye contact. It’s simple. – If you can give a girl a hard time, I think if you can listen, and then, I think honestly if you ask questions. – That is the number one thing, – Just listen and ask questions. Guys stop being nervous, ask the ladies questions. – What do you guys look for in a date? – Oh yeah – Core values. As long as there’s some overlap, in that Venn diagram. – The first thing I’m looking for in a date with a girl, is confidence. – Show me that you’re passionate about something. – Definitely a girl that has a sense of humor and can mess with you a little bit. – It’s humor, I think that’s like the biggest thing. If we can’t laugh, because now we have nothing to relate to, there’s no good times.

All our good times are like, “Hey remember when you helped me put my bed together?” – Do guys even think about how much they’re going to drink, before they go on the date or they just make that decision as they’re going? – Okay, I feel like, it’s like at a Comedy Club, there’s like a two drink minimum, if you’re going to dinner, two drinks, top it there. – You can drink as much as you want, just don’t get sloppy. – And my goal, isn’t to get you too drunk, because I want the sober you, to make this decision. – And then, if you go somewhere else, then whatever happens after that, happens after that. – If the first date ends, and then she’s like, “oh what do you want to do after this”, then you’re like “oh okay” we’re about to have some drinks. – Me, I just go in like, “hey, we’re pretty much on a two drink budget”. – Well the other thing I’d like to know, honest guys, is if guys don’t really like, text a lot after a date, is that like a calculated move or are they not into me? Like what’s, what’s up with that? – A guy may feel like he’s coming off too strong if he’s like “so we going to do this next week, Tuesday?”. He’s probably just trying to play it cool, he doesn’t want to seem too thirsty. – One of my favorite jokes I’ve ever heard, is one of my friends, who’s a female comedian, once said, she’s like “if he really wants to turn me on, “he’ll send a picture of himself ignoring my text message”.

And I was like “oh damn!”. – I think if the guy doesn’t initiate, at least in the very beginning, I say walk. Because to me, that is laziness. – Is there anything else you’d like us to keep in mind or anything else that we should know, about you? – I would like to really know their intent. If you could just be clear with me, so I won’t be going like “oh my god, “I think she really liked me” and she be like “I dunno, I thought we were just friends”.

And it’s like, we’ve been doing this for like a year. – Oh my god ladies! When the bill comes, at least pump fake, act like you’re going to go for your wallet, at least act like it! – Men function a lot like nuclear batteries, in the sense that there is a decay, in their animal-like behavior. All teenage and early twenty men, good possibility we’re scumbags. – 23 to say like 28, are very volatile years. – And so we’re thinking the whole time, what can I do to separate myself?

Guys, you don’t have to do anything, you’re unique, be yourself, you’re the best you!

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